Discussion Questions

Questions for Our Women…
Questions for our women:

Do you ever wonder if my work/school is more important to me than you are?

What are some things I already do that let you know you’re a priority in my life?

What other little things could I do to help you feel loved and secure?

What are your non-negotiable things when it comes to our financial or material needs?

What are your non-negotiable things in our relationship?

Do you think we need to make any changes in our family priorities-and resulting changes in our lifestyle-to help strengthen our relationship and our family? How can we make that happen?

Questions for Our Men…
Questions for our men:

Give me an example of when you felt that I really understood the burden you feel to provide.

Can you give me an example of when you felt I didn’t?

How did that make you feel?

Would it be easier for you if we reduced our lifestyle?

How can I take some of the pressure off you?